Hear What Oprah Winfrey had to say about Men

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. 

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending… Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary…
not supplementary. 

Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes… When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says… You should know that:

"You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts…"

Alhamdulillah

YES & I DID !

I wanna share that today is a good day for me. I got a job offer at one of Oil & Gas Company in Bangsar. After face to face interview on last Friday, 30/05/2014, they offered to work at their company.

All I can say now is, ALHAMDULILLAH. Really grateful to Allah.

Kebaikan buah-buahan ketika Panas

Kini cuaca panas kembali melanda kawasan sekitar Lembah Klang. Cuaca yang panas bukan sahaja menyebabkan kita berpeluh dengan lebih kerap yang mana menyebabkan proses dehidrasi berlaku dengan pantas.

Keadaan cuaca panas juga boleh menyumbang kepada masalah kulit seperi ruam, jerawat dan ketidakselesaan pada tubuh badan.

Oleh itu, di sini kami ingin berkongsi dengan anda tentang beberapa jenis buah-buahan yang boleh anda makan sebagai jalan mengurangkan masalah ini yang dipetik dari sebuah portal gaya hidup tempatan.

Mangga
Buah yang enak serta kaya dengan Vitamin C ini juga memebrikan kesan menyegarkan pada tubuh. Mangga menjadi buat yang lebih efektif bagi masalah strok dan kelelahan akibat terdedah kepada cahaya matahari.

Susu skim
Susu skim mampu memelihara tubuh daripada masalah dehidrasi dan juga gangguan pencernaan.

Jus buah-buahan
Jus buah-buahan segar amat membantu tubuh bagi menggantikan cairan yang hilang ketika proses dehidrasi di musim panas.

Apricot
Buah ini boleh menjadi snek yang berkesan bagi mereka yang kerap mengalami masalah jerawat di musim panas. Apricot kaya dengan kandungan zat besi, Vitamin C, kalium dan juga serat.

Jagung
Buah jagung megandungi asid pentotenat, memberikan Vitamin B untuk menjauhi stress. Jagung dalam bentuk apa pun, sama ada dipanggang atau direbus merupakan makanan sihat kerana boleh menurunkan kadar kolestrol.

Truth about Life

I'm reach that point of life. I'm just so used to everything now.

People talking shit about you. People hate you for no reason.

People will hurt you, even though they say they won't.

Promises will be broken, even though they promised.

People will use you and take advantage of you.

People will make you feel regret, giving them your trust.

The trust is, I don't give a damn anymore. because That's Just Life.  

Vacation to Vietnam with Family

Exciting vacation to Vietnam with my lovely family. Love you all.

  CHU CHI TUNNEL

BEN THANH MARKET

Congratulation Mun Choon

01.06.2014 is your day.

Congratulations Mun Choon & Pei ru.

Wishing you all the happiness there is &

as you both live out your lives together may they be entwined as you grow old together.

May God bless the two of you abundantly.

May love reign your lives forever.

Have a great married life.

Live long & prosper with love. Xx

Jealousy

Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value.  Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you.  There is only one alternative - self-value.  If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved.  You will always think it's a mistake or luck.  Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within.  Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences.  Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security.  Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them.